It's hard to believe that it is almost that time! Yep, my little one will be a year old and will soon be more of a toddler than a baby. I look at this with pride and a little sadness. When I was pregnant and had envisioned being a mommy to a baby girl, I did not realize how fast it would go! This year has been full of surprises and ups and downs! In this incredible year not only has Harliegh changed from a tiny baby who only slept and ate to a energetic little girl who is very independent and full of attitude and personality, but I have grown and learned so much, too. Here is what I have learned so far in Mommy 101:
I learned early on that even if it doesn't seem like it, Harliegh HAS to sleep eventually! It was better to think about that than to dwell on the fact that she wasn't sleeping.
I have learned that sometimes, it's ok to skip my shower. Before I had Harliegh I took a shower as soon as I woke up, now....I am getting used to only getting a shower in every other day. Usually when I have free-time I will decide its more advantageous to take a nap or get some cleaning done rather than shower...you get used to the smell after awhile..hahaha.
I have learned that time is precious. I only have a few hours to myself everyday and sometimes I am in near panic trying to decide how best to spend them. Before I took for granted how precious alone time can be! Oh what I would do to be able to sit on the beach or by a pool for hours and not have to chase around a busy baby! Oh what I would give to curl up and read a book for hours and not think of anything else! But at the same time...I wouldn't trade this for a thing!
I have learned that more often than not, my motherly-instinct is correct. It doesn't matter how much I read or ask advice, my instinct usually was right to begin with.
I have learned that there are so many opinions on everything baby-related. The best thing to do is decide what is best for YOU and your baby.
I have learned not to be so caught up in body image. Things change when you have a baby, that's just the way it goes, and you just don't have time to fix your hair, do your make-up or pick a perfect outfit like you used to. I see my beauty in the eyes of my baby, and that is the most amazing feeling ever. (though this doens't mean I couldn't use some pampering every once in awhile)
I have learned that having a good, helpful husband can make all the difference. If I ever needed a break, Tyler was right there ready and willing to take over all baby duties.
I have learned that every little milestone should be celebrated. I never knew I would get so excited over a baby rolling over or growing a new tooth.
Speaking of teeth....I have learned that almost all baby problems can somehow stem back to teething. Drooling, biting, crying, yelling, screaming, earaches, diarrhea,headaches (for the parents) somehow are all because of one little tooth.
I have learned that patience is the key to everything! It is very hard to remember this sometimes.
I have learned that it is not possible to keep the house clean at all times. It just can't happen.
Most of all I have learned that being a mom is the most wonderful and difficult thing I have ever done, but I wouldn't change a thing. Life changes when you become a parent. Not just your schedule, or the amount of sleep you get, or how many showers you get, but everything. I have different viewpoints on everything now. All because of one little girl.
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